Critic?

Critics or that’s how normal people are?!

Wonder what it takes for us to be nice?! Is it that difficult to not interrupt when someone’s talking, when someone’s explaining or when someone’s just giving a pause between a ‘speech’! Do we assume being dumb is only for the other person, or do we just believe that we are smarter than the other? Can there be no conditions attached? Cannot we display some amount of compassion towards others? We grew up being advised to never delete the word ‘why’ from our dictionary, was it because we now question every action of an individual? Guess we were better off when we were of a tender age, at least we were what we were supposed to be... Appreciating is not a daunting task, but may be earning it, is. The tongue is a weapon of mass destruction. We would definitely not like to be treated like the way we treat others, then why do we?! Attitude, Perception and Compassion are the key to lead a fulfilling life...

We will not live forever, may be December 21, 2012 is the last, but I am not even sure of tomorrow. Are you? Life will end, we will not even be here to know what others talk about us while we are gone. Accept it that you would want everyone to adore you and talk good while you don't remain in touch too... then why not feed them with that?

Am I like this? Are you like this? Don’t answer impulsively, think again, think of all the people you have been rude to, who made a difference in your life, who you have ridiculed, who you have never thanked, think of all the people who never did anything wrong to you... think, think, think!

Are all our actions justified? Are all our actions warranted? Every individual has their positives, positives so strong that we have no reason to believe that we are better than them.

They say, ‘be the change you want to see’..., but don’t you think the prerequisite is to believe in the change you want to ‘see’? Its never too late... apologize, forgive, thank you, sorry, smile, concern and care is what we need to bring into play more often. Expressly. We do not lose anything, but look at what the other person has gained and in return you!

Life is filled with mistakes, the other ingredients to change the taste are... realize and seek absolution, absolve and smile on.
Being NICE on a consistent basis is the key... Live and let live may be the motto of many, practice what you preach is what I believe in... So what do you want to be...?